Netvibing it!…All the way through!

images (1)Following a long lasting procrastination, my blog page was finally conceived and nurtured as a result of my social media class…. And after almost 4 weeks into the process, I love this addiction! In theory, I knew that new information and news cannot be created out of the blue; but what I learnt was that any contribution to the existing facts and figures is still original in its own form because its characterized by one’s own thoughts and ideas. Blogging about my experience as a blogger was a little mind boggling initially, but when I sat down to think about the various tacit steps that it took to produce a worthy blog…it felt to be a worthwhile topic to blog about. This blog is more of an integrated response to an introspective back and forth of the what, why and how of blogging.

What is a blog?

I found myself stuck on this basic and fundamental question for quite sometime. From what I understood, a blog was a piece of writing that reflected one’s impression about something. It was a public platform through which people of similar interests shared and educated themselves with each others work ultimately forming a virtual community. A few other views from BlogBasics that describe the meaning of blogs effectively are:

“…the first journalistic model that actually harnesses rather than merely exploits the true democratic nature of the web. It’s a new medium finally finding a unique voice.”– Andrew Sullivan

“[a] collection of posts…short, informal, sometimes controversial, and sometimes deeply personal…with the freshest information at the top.”– Meg Hourihan 

Once I stepped into the blogging world, I realized it can be nearly anything and everything that you want it to be… news, personal updates, celebrity gossip, marketing techniques, recipe compilations, investment guides, ad campaigns, political propagandas, health tips, gardening suggestions, recommendations on investments, and the like.

Why Blog?

Well! Being humans, we are fortunate enough to have our brains developed fully well in order to function as the most developed of all living beings…and so each one of us has a voice. Blogging provides us with that medium where one can communicate without vocal chords! Each one of us likes to hear and be heard…blogging is exactly that! There are a multitude of topics that people all across the globe talk about. I was overwhelmed, at first, to realize how much people talk about everything under the sun! Sure enough one of the first responsibilities of a blogger is to determine the purpose of blogging. Though a lot of people use this platform to convey personal thoughts, it has also become an integral part of professionalism in today’s world.

Commoncraft effectively illustrates the significance of blogging through this video.

 How blogging works?

The answer to this question involved no guesswork, creativity or imagination. It was an experience suggested by my professor, which has now replaced Google search for me. This blessing in disguise came in the form of Netvibes! It allowed me to organize everything on one dashboard – view videos, clips, images and information all together; see the updates coming in from Twitter, Washington Post, The Guardian, Google, New York Times and the like on a particular topic. I could customize the tabs with the image that interested me the most, search for different topics simultaneously, read and view topics with the backdrop of my choice…it just felt so awesome!! It was too much information thrown at me at first, I agree, but I am proud of how I managed to pick the keywords to narrow down my search and get content-specific details.

Netvibes Dashboard

Netvibes Dashboard

It was more like being a part of the social world where millions of people were talking about the same thing through different media and tools. It was about listening to them, not each of the voices, but thumbing through the ideas to see where my thoughts fit in best. My dashboard taught me what the most current topic of discussion in the electronic media was and also helped me find a spot according to where I belonged. I realized the meaning of what my professor would keep telling us in class,

…it’s not always about talking. You must listen first in order to be heard later…”

Thank you, Dr. Peggy. Your lessons are invaluable! You made me fall in love with blogging more than I would have actually imagined!



ImageLike a zillion other posts and news blogs, this is yet another piece of literature that questions the actions of the grotesque incident on the night of December 16, 2012 in Delhi, the capital of India. Being an Indian woman myself, I feel it is my moral duty to question and critically analyze some of these basic fundamental issues that go against the title of being the “largest democracy” in the world! 

What is the point of being so proud of India’s political standing when the women (who make up more than 50% of the country’s population) have to think twice about their safety on the streets? India is still entangled in the tight and evil clutches of patriarchy, of which the illiterate take further advantage to demean the feminine sex.  As a reaction to the detailed investigations of this particular Delhi rape case, the politicians were in their own parallel universe trying to explain how women must clad themselves appropriately in order to not “invite” such mishaps! Really? … Is this what you have in yourself in the form of leaders who share the dream of India’s progress? What is that burning fire inside these desperate illiterate men who cannot respect a woman and her equal position in society? Why do they forget their own mothers, wives, sisters and daughters, who await their return at home, when they indulge into these heinous crimes?

I am not trying to portray a negative image of my country through this post. All that I am trying to achieve, or draw attention to, is the fact that India is a beautiful country and has millions of things that She must be proud of. In order to understand the value of such assets, it is imperative that each and every Indian citizen realizes his/her own role and responsibilities in the society. For a country that is the second most populated one on this planet, it puts even more pressure on the government to function meticulously in order to produce positive results and take the country forward. It has taken the sacrifice of a brave girl who fought the battle of pain and suffering for almost two entire weeks, for the country to realize that it was regressing…this is just not justified!


This case spread like wildfire across the globe because of social media. There were protests in different parts of the world in support of the suffering victim and against the assaulters. It encouraged the other states to open previously filed cases, which had not even been looked at! There are hundreds of innocent lives that are subjected to such kinds of brutalities and forgotten about. A few male chauvinistic pigs cannot take advantage of their sexual strength to scar a woman for life! There has to be a solution to this because this is not a universal conundrum with the masculine gender…it is to do with a particular group of men folk that has earned Delhi, the title of the” Rape Capital” of the World!

The first thing that came into a non-Indian’s mind earlier was perhaps the wide variety of food, traditions, culture, the colorful clothes, elaborate celebrations, festivals, intricacies in the architecture and monuments, arts and crafts, etc…but when they think of India now, it is just this rape case and its atrocities! Repulsive. Disgusting. Sickening! WAKE UP INDIA! It’s high time that you choose the right representative to kill these social ills. There is no more room for carelessness. A bunch of feminists cannot bring a radicle shift in such a big country. Do your bit, so that the government does not have an excuse to let this vicious cycle of illiteracy-poverty-unemployment thrive!

Remember this girl in your thoughts and prayers.

Let her bravery be in front of your eyes forever.

Respect her sacrifice.

Stand up for the right!

“Yes, I would like LEADERSHIP as my middle name, please! “

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“It often intrigues me to think of how much it takes to be known as a good leader and a trusted role model!”, I wondered aloud in front my confidante who had a habit of reading my mind without my permission many a times. “You don’t have to go far…look at everything you’ve done in your own life till now, and see all that it has taught you”, he said before I could drift off into my own world of thought.

He was right indeed. Had I not had the experiences of the Girl Guides, the hardships behind the attainment of the International Award for Young People (I.A.Y.P) Gold medal, the Contingent leader opportunity in College, Volunteer for the International Student Association (V.I.S.A) Leader training and the prestigious title of the Event Coordinator for the Indian Student Association (ISA) at the Georgia State University, I would not be what I am today. Life would have been so disastrously different that it almost makes me cringe when I think of the possible alternative life that I steered away from.

This might be a long read, but I promise you wont regret it by the time you reach the end. It was a long thought process that was triggered in my head, and in order to do justice to it, I had to give it a justifiable lexical illustration. My leadership experience dates back to 1999 when I was appointed as the Patrol Leader for Girl Guides. At the age of 10, there was little that I knew about handling teams and being responsible for the work delegated to the 4 different teams under my leadership. Being one amongst the eldest girls in the Girlguiding group, who held a proficiency grade in academics, I fell bait to the teachers for this position.


Girl Guides at Bombay Scottish School, Mumbai

My duties translated into talking with my teams and coming to an agreement of how we were going to present at the chart making competitions; deciding collectively on the recipes for field cooking; assigning small tasks to each one to ensure that everybody was working towards the same results simultaneously; instilling the feeling of competition with the other teams, and one of the most responsible duties – bridging the gap between the supervisor and the teams. Every team had to devise a different way of working and because I was required to ensure a smooth running of this process, I found myself being pulled into each team’s group discussion.

Besides being guided by my supervisor I used to engage in long conversations with my parents at the dinner table regarding my plan of action. Having had the experience of Boy Scouts and Girl Guides behind them, they were able to guide me brilliantly and taught me a lot of invaluable lessons for life such as the importance of time management, effective delegation of work, multi-tasking and enhanced communication skills. I learnt the pragmatic effects of these teachings through my experiences, of course, but the knowledge of these concepts helped me become more methodical and independent.

Residential Project at Nehru Institute of Mountaineering, India.

Residential Project at Nehru Institute of Mountaineering, India.

After the exemplary performance of my teams in the Girl Guide camps, I was re-elected as a Patrol leader in 2000 to own this title till 2002. This gave me ample time to improve on my shortcomings and discover my latent talent of leadership that I carried in my genes.The International Award for Young People (I.A.Y.P.) under the guidance of the Duke of Edinburgh came as a pleasant opportunity my way in 2004. The achievement of this award demanded an enthusiastic commitment in social work, physical activity, outstanding skill, physical sport, outdoor adventure activities, and an additional residential project, for the completion of the advance gold medal. Read more about this program here.

All the camps that were included in this program instilled a strong sense of teamwork, camaraderie between strangers, cooperation and coordination, presentations, and the like. The stress-related activities were undertaken after heavy doses of motivational speeches and stories of great leaders. Even though I was not assigned the title of a leader, this experience helped me to shape my personality, become a tolerant member of the team, work with others of different calibers and work my way up to being the only winner of the Gold medal of I.A.Y.P in my high school. Having had the prior experience of working with other students as the Patrol Leader of Girl Guides, I always had an upper hand in teams because of the insightful stories and lessons I could share with my team members.

Cultural Secretary of Sophia with her team, Mumbai.

Cultural Secretary of Sophia with her team, Mumbai.

Well versed with all the tasks and duties that a responsible leadership must entail and be characterized with, I was ready to accept the position of the Cultural Secretary of the Sophia College of Women in India in 2009. The main duties that this post brought along with it included the handling of 15 odd teams in each of the fields of Fine Arts, Liberal Arts and Performing Arts. It was through the methodical planning of the Cultural Secretary and her committee of 3 others that the college was represented in the cultural festivals of other colleges.

My responsibilities comprised of safeguarding the college’s name and reputation, preparing a competitive contingent to ensure the best performance from the college, coordinating the activities of various teams for smooth running of the festival and effective stress management amongst my team members to keep them calm and optimistic in the face of defeat. I would often find myself caught between too many ideas provided by my committee and was required to make a decision that worked best for all. These times were perhaps the worst of all duties since even though the majority rejoiced; there was always a minority that was not happy with certain decisions.

The Volunteer for International Students Association (V.I.S.A) leadership experience, in August 2012 introduced a new set of challenges. Click here to know more. Likewise,  I was responsible for 20 international students who joined the Georgia State University in Fall 2012. I was the face of Georgia State University (GSU) and their first friend from college. While I carried the reputation of the college on my shoulders, I had also agreed to make each one of them feel important and needed in this new country. We were 16 V.I.S.A leaders who had to take care of 350 new international students from across the world.

V.I.S.A. Leaders for Fall 2012

V.I.S.A. Leaders for Fall 2012

The opportunity to deal with multicultural backgrounds was overwhelming at times. Even though we had received initial training about the hows, whys and whats that the new students generally wonder about, there were certain challenges like the linguistic barrier, which had to be faced at the moment. Time management was the key here, as I had to keep pace with my 15 other leader peers to ensure the easy going of the procedures.

Not only was it important to engage in communication between the students and myself, but it was also my duty to encourage friendship between them. A new international student myself, I was aware of the apprehensions that many students carry with them. It was sometimes stressful to break certain notions about America that they had brought along with them and introduce them to the new way of life in Atlanta, which was to serve as their home for the next few years.

GSU also blessed me with the opportunity to become the Event Co- coordinator of the Indian Student Association (ISA) in 2012. Passionate about India’s rich culture, I was determined to showcase as much of India as I could to those who knew little or nothing about my home country. This excitement and determination brought along a ceaseless list of duties with it, and as the event coordinator for the organization, I had to shape a lot of my ideas according to the resources available. Visit our official ISA website through this link.

ISA committee 2011-12

ISA committee 2011-12

As a student run and governed organization, it was my moral duty to make sure that the different departments such as those of funding, advertising, marketing, etc. were on good terms with each other to facilitate a smooth running of the plans and ideas. The prior experience of being a volunteer for the events the previous year worked to my advantage and also assigned me the importance as “the-one-who-knows-best”. Since the events were culture-based, there were multiple definitions of the same. There were numerous sessions of brainstorming with the ISA committee, which fostered harmony and goodwill between us despite our differences. Allocation of resources and delegation of duties was one of the most challenging parts of this position as there was no room for mistakes.

This experience brought along a silver lining to my interests and also helped me discover my interest in event planning, which I had not indulged into till now. It helped me learn about my strengths and weaknesses, and also taught me the true meaning of team spirit.

Lessons I learnt on the way…

rafting trip to Nanthahala

From the wide range of experiences that I have been fortunate enough to learn from, my leadership style best follows the participative style as proposed by Yetton and Vroom (as cited by Boleman and Deal, 2008). I am more of a team worker rather than an independent leader. I strongly believe in two heads being better than one, thus, resulting in the best when there is contribution from more than one person. According to me, treating the subordinates with equality, frank yet sensitive conversations, and striking goodwill with all are the key elements in working harmoniously towards a common goal. It is thus very important to make those, who work under the leader and for the leader, feel respected and important for their invaluable efforts. It is only once the workforce feels one with the leader, can it strive to attain the best results.

As important as it is to keep the internal structure strong with one’s effective leadership skills, I also believe that it is equally important to keep the public happy externally. This stems from my personal experiences catering to public at all times. As a leader, I prefer to consult extensively with my sub-ordinates, colleagues, peers, seniors, supervisors and/ or managers before making important decisions. I personally believe that when a leader strives to work for a group of people, it is very important that he/she treats the target audience as priority. This not only ensures a good quality and well-informed output but also helps the leader to win the hearts of his/her people.

The other reason that I prefer the participative style is because of the information flow from different directions. I am taking the liberty to equate a leader with a decision maker and hence feel that it is very important that a decision is made with full research done on the part of the decision-maker. The different inputs provided by the subordinates can add a new meaning to the project at hand, and, generate and nurture a group identity amongst members. It was while I was getting trained for my Girl Guide camp that I realized the importance of group activities like these. In order to serve a population that outnumbers the number of people making a decision, it is almost mandatory to consider all the possible ways in which the public psyche can shape itself with respect to the decision made. There is no way better than a good brainstorming session with a few people, who can sit and focus their thoughts on one subject at hand. With the various different backgrounds that people hail from, each one imbibes his/her own lessons from their experiences, which can enhance the reservoir of knowledge and resources when a well-informed decision is to be made.

The experience of the Cultural Secretary and the Event Coordinator, for example, taught me that participation of the subordinates is not needed in all the small decisions that the committee is required to make, and that a recurrent and repeated dependence on them, might lead them to question the role of the leader. It is hence important to draw a line between a group decision and group consultation process. As much of collaborative decision-making that may be advocated, these experiences also made me realize how important it is to be able to show independence of thought and action, in order to respect each other’s position in the organization and be understood as a leader with a spine. The participation of the peripheral influences definitely depends on the situation and a good leader should be able to make that distinction. I learnt this lesson the hard way when in retrospection; I realized that my leadership had been compromised a little to favor friends. Better late than never, relationships tread a sensitive path and this is yet another challenge for a leader to keep the personal and professional lives separate from each other.


ISA inauguration

Just like every coin has two sides, with all the good points and advantages, comes a set of disadvantages exclusive to the chosen approach of working. Similarly, the adoption of the participative style revealed its own weaknesses to me over time. As time involving as this approach is, it also taught me that those included in the process sometimes feel burdened to devote so much time to issues that they care little for. This approach also spelt out that I surrender some of my control in order to let the others take the floor and be assertive in their views. It was definitely helpful to get insights into every ones mind and learn from their contributions, but a group of people with contradictions can be a noisy affair with unnecessary cacophony – a frequent occurring during the planning of events, which translated into distractions from the main focus, people losing their temper and misunderstanding my intentions when I took a call against some ideas. Efforts to reconcile teams with a fair and just decision put me in a fix where in I was divided between two or more contradicting views, displaying a leaders weakness.

On a more positive note, these sessions taught me how to prepare myself in advance for such meetings. It took me about 4-5 meetings to learn the right way to handle such situations and at time be assertive as a leader. It helped to lay down some ground rules at the beginning of the meetings, do some initial communication with each member to get an idea of their mindset, justifiably take decisions independently when the participation of everyone was redundant. Answerability and legitimate explanations for a decision won me the goodwill of many of my team members, which made it easy to work through a plan. In-detail information was collected prior to any brainstorming sessions to avoid loose ends in conversations. Being methodical and calculative is what I learnt out of every unruly situation.
Success comes to those who know how to manage the power of their position is what I learnt from my experiences and effective management is one of the most challenging tasks that a leader must get right. Heavy is the head that wears the crown, but in order to be worthy of that crown, the head has to truly deserve it – a beautiful achievement that I carry with my name!

Diwali 2012…A New Beginning!


October 2011 brought along with it a pleasant surprise in the form of Diwali Hungama that I wished never ended. It was such a happy time, that resulted from a persistent effort by a few dedicated friends, to bring people together. From an outsider’s perspective, it felt like they were professionals at organizing such large scale events on the college campus with limited resources. Diwali is a high maintenance project as it entails various authentic and ethical aspects which are absolutely unaffordable on a foreign soil….and yet they made it happen! I knew I wanted to do this too, but did not know if I would be able to carry it off right till the end!

August 2012 seemed to have read my mind and brought along the title of Event-Coordinator of the Indian Student Association (ISA) my way. Diwali 2011 was groundbreaking and the students expected something new this year. With the gun on my shoulder I treaded forward with immense trepidation and apprehension to embrace Diwali Hungama 2012. There was no choice but to deliver the best in order to keep ISA’s reputation. It felt as if I had assumed a dual personality, wherein my personal self seemed less important than the ISA self!

With a committee of seven others and my own pillar of strength right beside me to lift me up everytime I lost hope or felt low, Project Diwali 2012 was underway in no time. A rigorous and in-depth planning from the budget, venue options, performers, DJ, food caterers, rental equipment, decorations, to the date of the event were meticulously chalked out to attract the most number of students, faculty and staff members. We had embroidered sarees being shipped from India for decoration purposes, caterers having agreed to sponsor a part of the dinner on the pretext of festive spirits, meetings fixed with all the authorities concerned, fundraiser sales in place, media arranged, professors approached for additional funding, and finally, perhaps the most challenging, 4500 feet of satin ribbon to be worked on with 17,000 sequins…all within the next 15 days of October!!

The midterm examinations came as unwelcomed guests and stayed around to disrupt all the timely planning! This was one of ISA’s most challenging obstacles! The invitations had been sent out in thousands and so the publicity of the event did its own dance of victory. Unaware of such enthusiasm for the event, it made me wonder why everyone, whom I met on the street, greeted me with a smile, and upon asking one of the amiable strangers, he remarked, “Free Indian food and the Balle Balle dance–what can get better than that on a saturday night?!” It was at this time when the cells in my body knocked me awake to the 10 days that remained for THE day. Thank you for acting like a catalyst, kind stranger.

People swamped into my house in multiples of tens and not surprisingly, there was work for everyone, every time! We sprawled not only into the two bedrooms but also the kitchen, patio and the corridor outside the house to meet the deadlines of a particular hundredth of the sequins curtains. I can’t thank my friends enough for standing by me during this time and showing up each and every night from 9pm to 1am or later. While a few of us worked, some others cooked to feed us, and yet a few others entertained us to keep us from falling asleep on the Diwali craft! It was a demanding job undoubtedly. The duration of my sleeping hours considerably reduced from 9 hours to 5, and I was somehow enjoying the experience, as it felt good to be engrossed into this event. It was almost as if I was addicted to the stress, a distasteful amalgamation of school work, class presentations, research assistantship, lab assistantship and the Diwali round the corner, of course!

October 27 came skipping into my life! Before I could make peace with my conscience, I realized I was on my way to the venue. A team of 15 volunteers helped me gain control over the overwhelming task that stood like an indomitable giant before us. In no time, the sarees were strung onto the 100 feet of wire with alternate panels of sequins curtains on both sides to create walls;backdrops rolled out against a 150 ft wall with colorful sarees dropped straight down from the ceiling; lanterns put up; banners installed; balloons blown to make bouquets; lights assembled; Diwali posters mounted; bleachers arranged; DJ, photographer and videographer in position; registration and dinner tables in place; and the, Puja corner decorated like a newly-wed Indian bride! The clock struck 6 and it felt as if I could finally steal a moment to breathe and see my paper patterns played out before my eyes in real time….it felt wonderful to be standing right in the middle of this huge familiar space that looked so pretty and mesmerizing!

I was curious to see the reactions of the guests, and much appreciated as the efforts were, some of the invitees literally stopped at the entrance – amazed! I couldn’t help but blush to myself. It felt as if all the sleepless nights, skipped meals, missed classes, messed-up hair days (this is of utmost importance to girls!) and aching body had suddenly received its due share of respect and reward! I was loving this taste of success and in retrospection, I am glad that I had the opportunity to undertake this project with my ISA team. We were able to achieve our objective of providing the best, that we could, to our guests and that is what meant most to us. Everyone ate, smiled, danced, enjoyed and “felt” the Diwali spirit 16 days before the real day! Mission accomplished!

By the end of it all, I discovered how seducing the final outcome of an event can be. I realized how much I loved the brainstorming, planning, managing and executing processes…I have the experience of having organized other small events such as the Housewarming Party, Bachelorette Party for my roommates and the Ganesh Chaturthi puja at home, but all of those have been with friends and there was room for mistakes and shortcomings there. They were all MY people who appreciated any tiny effort taken to give everyone a reason to gather under one roof…but Diwali was an entire new ball game altogether. Even if I had these 50 odd friends to buttress me, there were 250 other strangers whom I had to appeal to , through my ways and other non-verbal, yet visible communication.

This Diwali brought along with it, a new awakening in me, a new discovery of my potential, a new hope, a new interest, and perhaps, the inception of a new career!

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